Being a carer

  So, on the 16th May I became a care worker. It was a brand new job I never expected to enjoy but good God I love it!
  I was dreading the usual expectations people seem to have of the role such as: wiping bums and cleaning old people's parts, but to be honest, it's so much more than that!
  I have already built up a huge rapport with so many of my different clients that I visit, I now feel as though I am part of their lives, helping them, supporting them and providing the with a comfortable and relaxed service. It's not all dirty jobs! On some calls I am lucky enough to sit down and have a chat, a cup of tea or to do a bit of housework. I am able to speak to a variety of different people and to hear about their lives.
  There is a small percentage of people that I see that are going through some harrowing conditions and to be part of a network of people trying to provide that person with comfort and peace on their slow depature, is such an amazing feeling.
  This is the first job where I have felt as though I am making a difference. I feel as though I am helping someone to lead an easier life. It is truly a humbling experience. I am lucky to be able to meet new people, of all ages, and to actually care. I thought I would have to put on an act, almost, to get on with the job, but I have definitely begun to get feelings for each person.
  It's hard not to get attached, especially when you are, at times, spending such intimate moments together. I can't imagine how hard it must be to have someone you don't know coming in to your house to wash you; but I feel as though I can put people at ease and allow them to relax around me.
  I have become so much more cheerful. I feel as though I am doing numerous good deeds each day despite being paid to do it. I end up staying a bit longer at people's homes just to hear their stories or make them feel less isolated and alone. I love it.
  The hours are tough and considering that I am working 6days a week, it's tiring. Yet the overwhelming sense of achievement and pride I have in my work, makes it so worthwhile.

  If you are looking for a new career or just need a change I would definitely recommend going in to care. It is the most rewarding and genuine job you can apply for. If you don't enjoy it, or don't think you will, then you may be surprised because I felt exactly the same! Try it, it's changed my outlook on life entirely and it could do the same for you.

Love and hugs,
Case

Sebastian James

I would like to introduce the world to my gorgeous nephew Sebastian! He is the new addition to the family and he is an absolute beauty! I am a very proud aunty!